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The Most Delightful Route to NEW YORK and NORTHERN AND EASTERN SUMMER RESORTS IS VIA THE OLD DOMINION LINE AND RAIL CONNECTIONS. DesirabieRoute to Pan-American Ex position, Buffalo, N. Y.t as the monot ony of the long rail journey is broken. lis press steamships leave Norfolk, Ya., except Sunday, at 7:UU p. m., ana "mi umion, at o:w p. m.,ior stcn Urk direct, affording opportunities for 'JUtlm-HKt rtnA l'nof n .rioi ft iiAt mnnA M l'oint Comfort and Yirginia Beach I-'or tickets and general information :,Z''0 railroad ticket agents, or to M. . ('''WELL, General Agent. Norfolk, Va.; Richmond Vt , H- B. WALKER, J. J. BROWN, Traffic Mgr", Qen. Pass. Agt NEW YORK, N. Y. 1 MEXI COUNTRY EDITORS. GRAPHIC DESCRIPTION OF THEIR- CALLING FURNISHED FROM EXPERIENCE. He Is Usually a Man of High Resolves, Progressive Spirit and Patriotic Purpose, Whose Time and Energies are (liven to the Welfare of the Com munity In Which He Uvea and the Betterment of His Fellow flan. W. L. Tborndyke, Loveland (Colorado) Keporter. The country editor has a mind and a will sufficient to move mountains, and he has more plans and schemes which are a-born in' than has the average politician. Heaven only knows how many that is! You have all read Mark Twain. Well, did you ever for a moment think what a typi fication of Colonel Sellers the average country editor is? He can comfort ably warm himself by the candle of hope burning within the stove of ex pectation, and I have known some editors to coneoct more wild plans for the coining of cash than Colonel Sel lers ever dreamed of. Yet, after all, the majority of them are pretty decent sort "of fellows, as the world goes, seldom losing a chance of say ing a kind word for a real friend or violently cussing" an emphatic enemy. You may cajole the country editor if you will, persuade him if you must or buy him if you can, but do not try to threaten him or defy hiui, for you cannot make a success of the job. You might as well expect that the State could get back Billy Griffith's great graft of interest as to expect to make a simple bluff stick on the country editor. When he puts forth some peculiar plan for the betterment of mankind, the country editor often wonders why the entire world d.s not grasp the idea with the i litr f a hungry man turkle a banquet. Ami when he finally learns that he is em phatically squelched does he repiue and mourn? INut much. He lets ;u gracefully and very softly and then tackles with keenest zest the next j great reform that enters his mind. dens of the day and fears for the mor high rksolvks. row. And the woman perched herself Tn inntmnltin(r mv iirf nanar 1 on the arm of his chair with woman- r 0 j - hrmly resolved to reform the whole world. At the end of one month I thought the State was large enough for my first field, and at the end of the second I concluded to fix the couuty as I wanted it, and at the end of the third month I decided that I would fiest reform the town. Since that time I have learned that if I wanted to reform myself I would have a pretty large job of it, and you can easily see tonight how far along I am on the contract. Having once embarked as a countrv editor, the victim is much like a pris oner in the "pen" under an indeter minate sentence. His getting out wholly depends upon his good be havior during his term. As a rule the fellow in the "pen" gets out the sooner. The rustling country editor is ex pected to feel the public pulse just a trifle in advance of anyone else to blaze the way, so to speak, for what is better for the communitv surround ing his patrons. When matters come right down to a business basis when wild eyed people' have got over some promised boom then the abilities of au editor are taxed to the utmost to effect compromises between gay an ticipation and stern reality. But he can do it if he will, and there are few of the craft who are not willing to make many sacrifices if the good of the community so demand. PROGRESSIVE. To the country editor and his con stant work may be accredited muon of the progress of Colorado today. He urges the schoolhouse, although perhaps he never enjoyed the advan tage of one; he pushes along' the churches, although probably he would not know whether to stand up or sit down if be went into one; he yells loudly for the construction of a rail road to bring his locality into touch with the outside world, although he well knows that he never will feel able to buy a ticket over its line. When the schoolhouse is completed, he applauds. When the church is finished, he prints a picture of it and tells what a heap of good will result, and when the first train is run over the new railway he lauds the capital ists so-, highly that were they to sud denly wsft themselves up the be- jeweled right of way without orders from the chief dispatcher the Al mighty would not know them. Then the editor goes to the high powers and demands an "annual" and re ceives a brief mileage book, with half fare permits for his strickeo and im mediate family! When an editor makes a mistake the entire county knows of it at once. A preacher's mistakes are often for gotten, s lawyer's killed by the ste nographer, a baker's eaten, a coal dealer's burned and a doctor's buried the editor's are in sight every time some one comes in to look over the blamed old file. And every few years they are brought forth and aired be fore a forgetful pnblic just to keep up some excitement. People, some of them, seem to forget that a coun try editor may change his mind as time rolls, just like an ordinary white man. UPS AND DOWNS. The country editor has his periods of encouragement and discourage ment, yet he is, after all, a very hannv fellow. He can stand more hnffrta from outraged fortune and still assert "We are here to stay" than he who follows any other calling. It is true that he sometimes stays be f cannot ?et awav. but what kr H la not the only one in KJ . bUV t - that. hnt u- m.i.t ntdr tb answer off hand when "Anxious Reader" or "Old Subscriber" or "Perplexity" asks what wool sold for in 1877, or what is the population of China, or when to wean Dames, or war "BUKuuimnuuiuiuusuiai mn.i .uu. was removed, or who will succeed point. Teller, or what is ft Ponulifit. and bfti usually knows, or thinks he knows He is genial and has considerable adaptability. He can umpire a ball game, referee a dogfight, play best man at a wedding, quiet a crying baby, make good at a prayer meeting or help tar and feather the man who will not subscribe for his paper. He starts in as a printer's devil, and when his form is made np ready for the press at the end of a punctured career he graduates as a devil of a printer. He tells the troth as he sees it in both religion and politics, unless he has a hunch that a slight elasticity regarding the latter might be better for his candidate. Then be hedges. His only drawback is the condition of his finances, owing mainly, I believe, to the fact of his extreme bashfulness and lack of nerve. That is the reason so many of us are here tonight in bor rowed raiment, but I sincerely trust that the rule of four will soon be our custom divide our rebuffs, subtract our pains, multiply our outings, arid add our gains. A Typical South African Store. O. R. Larson, of Bay Villa, Sundays liiver. Cafe Colony, conducts a store typical of South Africa, at which can be purchased anything from the proverbial "needle to an anchor." This store is situated in a valley nine mi its from the nearest railway station nnl about twenty-fiye utiles from the neat est town. Mr. Laroon ga?!: "I am favored with the custom of fanners' within a radius of thirty inilef, to many of whom I have supplied Chamberlain's remedies. All testi fy to their value in a household where a doctor's advice isaluiort out of the question. Within one mile of my store the population is erliHps sixty. Of these, within thepat twelve months, less than fourteen have been absolutely cured by Chamberlaiu's Cough Remedy. This must surely he a record." For sale by Melville Dorsey, druggist. TO BANISH CARE AND WORRY. A Pretty Little Sermonette by the Richmond News. Once a each other man and a woman loved and were married. In the course of time trouble time trouble came upon them and the man went home at nieht with his heart heavy with the bur- ish wiles and foolishness, incited him to laughter and with warm, soft lips kissed away the wrinkles gathered on his forehead and coaxed his soul to harbor Courage and Hope, banishing the cares and dreads. The woman as the years went by became worn and wearied with child bearing and caring, with the sorrows the years bring to all lives and the more racking troubles the days bring to a woman's lfe. Then the man kiss ed tenderly and told her that he loved her, and the footprints of pain and worry were smoothed from her face. Her heart was filled with light and music and beauty like a cathedral at a festal time when the organ leads a great congregation in Te Deum Lau damus, and the sound of solemn and splendid exultation rings from floor to dome. For when a woman loves and knows she is loved her soul can know no hunger and the unfading radiance of that one truth weaves rainbow glories even into the midst of her bitterest tears. And at the end one of them died no matter which one. The living looked upon the quiet, white face of the dead and saw upon it the marks of time and toil and grief, perhaps, but none placed there by him or her, as the case might be: The living one knew then that death separates but cannot destroy, that between the heart yet beating and the stilled heart there remained a connection never to be broken, distinct but baffling the senses to comprehend, elusive, impal pable and beautiful as the track of moonlight along the surface of a placid sea. The man and the woman whose love and care and thought are to smooth the wrinkles from each other's faces may be poor in all else, but in that one thing they are magnificently rich and enviable. No ill turn of fortune can deprive them of that in estimable prize. Even the darkness of death itself cannot shadow its beauty nor dim its light, for its mem ories in shining thousands throng the path of thought from the earlier to the later days, and glorify the hum blest and most sorely braised heart. A Kepert from Snpt. J. C. Gluelt, Re form Schol, PmlrMwa, W. Tat. October 18th, 1900. "After trying all other advertised eouith medicines we have deeided to use Foler'a msI Tavr exelusively in the West Virginia Reform Sehool. I find it the most effective, and absolutely harmless." For sale by Mel ville Dorsey. He Explained. The following story about a con versation between President Lincoln and General Scott, which we have printed before, may be new to some: Lincoln was urged from the begin ning of the war to take Richmond, but talking of taking Richmond and taking Richmond were two different matters. General Scott who was not retired until after several futile at tempts had been made to take Rich mond, was summoned before the President. "General Scoter1 said Mr. Lincoln, "will you explain why it is that yon were able to take the oity of Mexico in three months with five thonsand men, and have been unable to take Richmond in six months with one hundred thousand men?" "Yes, sir, I will, Mr. President." replied General Scott. "The men who took me into the city of Mexico are the same men who are keeping me out of Richmond now." A 8REAT OPPORTUNITY. The burned district of Jacksonville, Fla.. which is beinsr rapidly rebuilt, offers an opportunity of employment to work - men, and excellent prospects to contrac - tors and capitalists. Jacksonville is . reached from all directions by the Sea- hnnrrl Air T.ino RailwAv avstem. which offers unexcelled facilities in the way of i i SEVENTEENTH YEAR. THE WALTER L. MAIN Grandest, Best Shows on Earth. FIEST TISwdE HERE. Coming to Hendersorv, rionday, October 28th. NOTHING LIKE IT SEEN IN.OUR CITY BEFORE. EVERYTHING ENTIRELY NEW AND ENTIRELY DIFFERENT. ALL NEW BIG RAILROAD SHOWS. DOUBLE CIRCUSES, MENAGERIES AND SUPERB SPECTACULAR HIPPODROMES Coming In their two special trains of double length railroad ears. The enly eireus car rying its own Pullman sleeping and dining cars. After you see this National American Institution you will not say, "Circuses are all alike." 1.000 MEN. WOMEN AND HORSES 1.000 ACTUAL EXPENSES THREE THOUSAND DOLLARS DAILY. THE SEASON FILLED WITH NEW ATTRACTIONS The whole entire show undivided artist, including tne latest soutn American arrivals tue UAKSKNMJSTT1 if AMiLiX of eight people. The most marvelous Acrobats of modern times. The highest salaried circus act in America. America's Premier FAMILY, the most sensational act before Marvelous Equine, EVERGREEN, JR., a separate and distinct gaits. TUE "BLOODY SIXTH ROUGH K1DERS, fresh from their fhiltDDine victories, our society THOROUGHBRED CHARGERS, largest Latest Sensation. TUE FEMALE ZOUAVE wildering military manouvers. MADAM ducing her Marvelous Jumping Horses. FALO BULL." the only one known to exist. exhibited in our mammeth mentgerie now BIG 3 NEW 3 IDEA S FREE 3 STREET 3 PARADE- THE LONGEST. MOST COMPLETE CITY WILL LEAVE THE SUOWliKUU Admission, 50c. Children, 4 and over and under 12, 25c ONE TICKET PASSES THE HOLDER ALL THE WAY THROUGH THE MENAGERIE, HIPPODROME. 3-RING CIRCUS AND ROUGH RIDER EXHIBI TION. "TICKETS ON SALE AT W. T. WHITTEN'S BOOK STORE SHOW DAY LONG DISTANCE TELEPHONES. Henderson Telephone Company Ex tending Its Lines to the Coast. New Berne Correspondence Raleigh Post. New Berne and Raleigh will in a few months be connected with each other by long distance telephone and what is more, Raleigh can talk over the wires with all points in this Eastern country, namely on a line extending down through Rocky Mount, Tarboro, Greenville, Kinston, to New Berne. Thence on towards the coast to Morehead City, to Beau fort and along the coast towards Ocracoke through a county almost inaccessible hitherto for anything but the most random communication. Raleigh will then be able to reach Trenton, the county seat of Jones county, only possible to be reached by courier now in case of urgency, from Cove, nine miles away. The telephone poles are now in be low this city as far as Newport, ten miles from Morehead City. As soon as the lower end of the line is com plete, the company promises to build the connecting link from Greenville, to this city. Long distance 'phones will be put in and communication established with points beyond the boundary of the State. The whole system will be controlled by the Hen derson Telephone Company. Stricken With Paralysis. Henderson Grimett, of this place, was stricken with partial paralysis and com pletely lost the use of one arm and side. After being treated by an eminent physi cian for quite a while without relief, my wife recommended Chamberlain's Pain Balm, and after using two bottles of it he is almost entirely well. Geo. R. McDonald, Man, Logan" county, West Virginia. Several other very remarkable cures of par tial paralysis have been effected by the ute of this liniment. It is most widely known, however, as a cure for rheumatism, sprains and braises. Sold at Melville Dorsey "s drug store. Anarchy (lust be Suppressed. Speaking of the freedom allowed anarchists in this country and the brazen effrontery of these wretches at Paterson, N. J., in celebrating the death of the King of Italy by one of their number and the lauding of Ciolgosz for his cowardly assault upon President McKinley the Raleigh Post says: Every mother's son, or daughter for that matter, for the Goldman wo man as well as Lacy Parsons are re vived by this latest crime should be given to understand that they may choose between being buried in this country or leave it, and decide quick ly. There will be a repetition of the New Orleans performance unless matters change. Anarchy most be suppressed in this country, wherever, whenever, or how ever it manifests itself, or by whom . xhe occasion for such suppression is 1 furn;.hd. THE BEST should be your aim should be your wnen Dnying medicine, uet when buying medicine. Hood's Sarsaparilla and have the best medicine MONEY CAN BUY, A PERPETUAL SUCCESS coming here. New tents, new features, new Fancy Trick Bicyclists .TUE MAKTELL the American people. The World's Most JflO.000 park and saddle horse, having eight Horse rair. AMERICAN and akabiajn number ever exhibited in one arena. The CORPS. 24 handsome voung ladles In be MAR ANTETTE. direct from Europe, intro A WHITE PHILIPPINE WATER BUF Human eyes will never behold another the largest of any traveling exhibition . AND NEWEST EVER SEEN IN YOUR JN JJS AT TriN U'ULUUa A. M. RAM'S HORN BLAST. Warning: Notes Calling the Wicked to Repentance. The only way to have the very present help is to have the ever pres ent Helper. The preacher who thinks only of pruning flowers of rhetoric will pluck little of righteousness. Souls are not saved by slovenly service. Probably Paul was a D.D. before he was converted. He who takes all he can get often gets more than he can take. Every man has his own image. When love calls His Lord there is no sweeter word. The magnified church will often mean the minimized Christ. The preacher'8'oratory in the sanc tuary must fail unless prayer has its oratory in his soul. Heaven may include earth. The dance is the devil's litany. You can never teach a toad to trot. There is much difference between the tally cards of earth and those of Heaven. When men serve us well, we must not worship them but God who made them His instruments. Jacob had to give up his cunning. Job his goodness, and Peter his strength before they got a bless ing. They who keep near the Good Shepherd do not know that there are either dogs who guard or wolves who attack. There is a good deal of difference between seeking to have the truth on your side and seeking to be on the side of truth. The prescription for salvation must have an application as well as an un derstanding before healing is found. Patriotism is based on principles. Restraining prayer is retaining care. Every Day Will be Sunday By-and-By. Representative Hoffecker, of Dela ware, has been telling this story to Representative Mudd and other Maryland Congressmen, says the Bal timore Sun: "Down on the Delaware-Maryland Peninsula there live two families who, according to the local prints, named Day and Sunday. The Day family has seven daughters and the Sunday family has seven sons. "I am reliably informed that five of the Day girls have already married that number of Sunday boys, and that still another Day girl is about to be come the wife of another Sunday boy. In view of this, why isn't it appro priate to say that every Day will be Sunday by-and-by." m CASTOR I A For Infants and Children. Tli Kbl Ycj Hm Alaan CU Bears the Signature of What He flight Do. The custom of preserving the busi ness name of a tirm years after the founders have passed away or disap- f eared finds its reproof in 'a storv re ated byithe New York Post. A young man was sent out to can vass leading lawyers in a certain in terest entered the office of a firm of great prominence and said: "I should like to see Mr. M.." men tioning the first name of the firm. "Very sorry, sir, but Mr. M. has been dead three years," was the an swer. "Well, in that case I should like to see Mr. N." the second name of the tirm. "Mr. a year N. retired from the tirm over o," said the clerk, with a snule. "Indeed; then may I see Mr. O.?" the last name of the three. "Mr. O.," replied the clerk, "sailed last week for Europe and won't be back for a month yet. Is there any thing I can do for you?" -'There is," answered the canvasser with the utmost suavity. "Some day, when you have time, you might bring the first name up to date." A GOOD INVESTMENT. One thousand mile tickets of the Sea board Air Line Railway, which are sold at $25.00, are irood over the entire sys tem, and are also honored between Rich mond and Washington by the Richmond, Fredericksburg & Potomac and Pennsyl vania Railroads, between Portsmouth and Baltimore by the Baltimore Steam Packet Company (Bay Line) and between Clinton and Columbia, S. C, by the Columbia, JNewberry& Laurens Railroad. This ticket is proving to be a great con venience to the traveling public, and its tavorable conditions commend it to all Ticket is good for one j'ear. SIR WALTER RALEIGH. ' Proposition for a Statue to be Erected and Named in His Hoaor. Ralfijih News and Observer. General Julian S. Carr will propose at the coming meeting of State Liter ary and Historical Association that the people of North Carolina erect a suitable bronze statue to Sir Walter Raleigh in this, our capital city, named in his honor. General Carr's proposition will em brace the suggestion that collection boxes be placed in drug stores and other suitable places where tobacco is sold to receive the donations, especially all who use the famous weed. It is well known that the great and versatile Raleigh first introduced to bacco among the English-speaking people, and the story of the English man who thought he was on fire when he saw him smoking and threw a pitcher of water in his face to put him out, has been told for three cen turies. But though the tobacco men may lead in this just memorial of Raleigh, and there are such a multitude of those who have enjoyed the fragrant plant in North Carolina as to make the task easy to them alone, still it is a matter in which every North Caro linian will want to take a hand. While the smokers feel an affection for the first of their class, Raleigh was hrst in many other things as a statesman, soldier, scholar, explorer, navigator, historian and philosopher. Raleigh first introduced potatoes from America into Ireland, where they were called Irish potatoes. It was Raleigh who advised Queen Elizabeth that the Spanish Armada ouht to be attacked at sea instead of waiting for the invincible Spanish infantry to land. So far as we know there is no statue to Sir Walter Raleigh anywhere on the earth. He spent two fortunes colonizing America, and if King James bad been equal to Elizabeth this illus trious man, Raleigh, would have seized South America as he did our continent for the Anglo-Saxon race. Raleigh's statue in heroic size ought to stand in the centre of Nash Square, where it may be the first object of interest to be seen by the thousands who pour into our capital city from the railroads. General Carr will doubtless have a specimen collection box, such as he recommends to the Association, at its annual meeting at the Fair, so that the collection may begin at the meet ing. The people of Raleigh smokers and all will be glad to start the con tribution to this laudable enterprise. It is fitting and appropriate that Gen eral Carr, who has done so much for all that will bless North Carolina to day and for all time, should be the inaagurator of the movement to de tardy justice to one of the greatest men in an age of great men. S. A. Ingalls. Crown Point, N. IT ..writes: "My wife suffered from kidney trouble for years. She was induced to try Fly' Kidney Car and in less than a week after she began using it, she was greatly improved and three bottles cured her. For sale by Melville Dorsey. THE SEABOARD AIR LINE RAILWAY, "CAPITAL CITY ROUTE," Is the short line between the East and Florida, reaching all points in the South, Southeast and Southwest, and is the only Sou tl tern line reaching the capitals of all the States through which it passes, and whose through trains pass through the National Capital. The traveler, whose destination is in the Southland, will do well to investigate the service of this modern and up-to-date line, whose schedules, accommodations, thro' train service and rates are the standard. Whether your journey be via Norfolk and steamer lines, or all rail, the Sea board Air Line is the line yon should take. Its 1,000 mile tickets, good over the entire system, including Florida, and also between Richmond and Washington, and Norfolk and Baltimore, by boat, offer special ad vantages. And there are others, of which any agent or representa tive of the line will inform you upon ap plication. When suffering from racking cough, take a dose of rtmy' jr mm Taw. The soreness will be relieved and a warm, grateful feeling and healing of the parts affected will be experienced . For sate by Melville Dorsey. THE IDEAL LOVER. A WOMAN'S ESTIMATE OF THE HIGHEST IDEAL OF MAN'S LOYE FOR WOMAN. Ella Wheeler Wilcox Thinks It Is Illus trated by the Mil Who Is Kind, Sympathetic, Yet Masterful The Meal Lever Is rl Who Comauads His Wife's or Sweetheart's Respect and Admiration. By Ella Wheeler Wilcox In Atlanta Con stitution. What is the highest ideal of man's Jove lor woman? It is a more difficult question to answer than Its companion woman's iaeai love lor man because woman is a more difficult being to sstisfy in me matter or ine affections than man. (iiven an orderly home, a well supplied table and a tactful, cheerful woman 10 reign, ana the average man is content with his domestic re lations. But emotional woman wants more than these conditions errant She wants continuous praise, a fre quently occurring touch of senti ment, and even a misunderstanding I .1 . .. a " uuw idu men, louoweu ov a recon ujiKtiuu, is sweeter 10 ner loan a monotony of unexpressed satisfac tion: The ideal lover takes into considers tion all these peculiarities of femi nine temperament, and adapts hini- scu 10 inem in a reasonable degree. Aimoai every woman, the most ar dent wife by expatiating upon the uuaruis ui auu romantic as wen as the phlegmatic, realizes at times the maternal element in her love for a man. It is this which aids her in being his patient nurse in hours of illness, and his stimulus in times of despondency; and it is that lack of graver and more paternal element in man's love which detracts from its ideality so often. When he does possess it man is liable to overdo the matter, and to become the slave of his lady's hysteri cal moods, and to encourage her weaknesses and selfish whims. The lover who is at once kind, sympathetic and masterful, is seldom found, yet he alone illustrates the highest order of love. The ideal lover is he who com mands bis wife's or sweetheart's re spect and admiration, together with her love; who makes her realize that his standards of womanhood and of life are high, and that the expects her to do her part toward maintain ing them, and who is capable of drawing a frbe line between devotion and servility. The ideal lover of each sex is net a 6lave, or a coward. The moment those elements enter into a lore, its standard is certainly lowered. I once heard a wife say that she would not live with a man who told her he thought another woman beau tiful. She felt that his lore for her should blind his eyes to the beauty of all others. The man loved bis wife. but while his lips were silent on the subject of others' charms, his furtive glances of admiration often bespoke the sentiments of his mind. That man's love was not ideal, since it lacked the courage to make his wife understand how she belittled herself in the eyes. The ideal lover does not entertain his other women for hours, but he does express bis respectful admira tion on occasions. He strives to bring out the very best and noblest qualities in the wo man whom he has chosen for his life mate, and to aid her in developing into a perfect womanhood. He is her friend and her protector as well as ber lover and her admirer. He looks oat for her best interests, but he never forgets that she has an individ uality of her own which is to be re spected and considered. She is his mate and his companion, not bis chattel or his servant. She is to be advised and guided, but not commanded or coerced. The highest type of lover realizes that a woman has a spirit and a soul, as well as a bedy. The man who hides a woman away and tries to keep her from all associ ation with her kind, and all pleasures not directly bestowed by him, is not an ideal lover, however madly he adores her. His-love savors too much of that of the bear, who carries the lamb to its cave to devour it at leisure. Neither is that the highest type of love which encourages a womaa's foolish ambitions and unworthy aims. I have known a man to plume him self as a model husband because he gave his assistance to a silly wife the mother of his children who con ceived an aspiration for a theatrical eareer. She possessed no talent and made herself only the object of ridicule and pity to all observers, while 6he left her husband a good man of ample means and her chil dren to the care of domestics. 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